I have some questions for other men with urinary incontinence. I am a 49 year old man that started having urgency after an incident of pneumonia that caused brain damage because of the lack of oxygen to my brain. All the "urological" causes have been ruled out so they are chalking it up to "neurological" causes. I have been diagnosed with neurogenic bladder. Detrol controlled the urges for years. When it stopped working they changed it to oxybutinyn which worked for about a year. Then the urges came back but this time I was incontinent with the urges. That is when I started seeing a urologist. They have tried me on multiple drugs, trospium then Myrbetriq. Since I started the Myrbetriq I went from wetting my pants one or maybe two times a day at most to wetting every few hours. Clearly it is not working. My frustration is I have had to resort to wearing diapers-which I hate-but I can't find a brand that doesn't leak! How do other men handle "large-volume" incontinence. The testing showed when I was incontinent it was with 800cc's or more in my bladder. That is an ocean! What can I wear that doesn't leak until, hopefully, I regain my continence. Any man with this problems suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks.
Doug