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Over the past two years my husbands medical issues has increased. He sees at least 6 different specialists. He has lug cancer and has been and is presently being treated with immuno-therapy. He would not have survived chemo nor a second bout of radiation. He has been urinary incontinent for over a year with the condition getting worse dailey. I have shields, pull ups, wipes, creams and a urinal by the bed at night. He is now having difficulty using the urinal so the bed is wet. I have washable covers but the laundry days have increased. I am constantly mopping floors, Taking out soiled diapers ( when he decides to wear them), doing laundry and trying to keep his depression at bay. Oh, getting him to wash or shower regularly. He is 79 and I am a very tired 74 . I am frustrated. I have tried to have conversations about this but not either he's not listening or just doesn't care. Frustrated and Very Tired