How to cope with embarrassment?
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EleanorRose said:
To your original post, I too am embarrassed and that is with not anyone knowing or finding out about my issue. I bedwet occasionally so I am not having to struggle with the issue of day wetting as many on here are. But I still get embarrassed, even with no one knowing of my struggle. like buying Depends Real Fits when I get ready for a trip where I need to wear protection at night or on a long flight, just in case. Or even being embarrassed putting my night time underwear on at a hotel where only I am in the room...humiliating to me. But know what?? I do it and get embarrassed with myself and keep living life.
I'd hope that if I had day issues to that I would have the same persecutive on the situation that life gave me. Day wetting, night wetting, it does not matter, don't let it hold you back.
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JayTee,Jaytee said:
You are so correct. God has blessed us with our pet family members.
Today was international Communion Day. Was a very nice service. Our Church doesn’t bless pets but that’s okay. God put my little buddy in our lives and I am am Blessed abundantly. Maybe not with money but with my sweetheart, our little dog, my family, our little country Church and a job I love and a company that I believe in what they do and the products they make, and the people here. Can’t ask for more than that!
Be Blessed my friends, and be a Blessing to someone else.
Jim
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Jaytee,
I use the depend underwear sometimes because the Lycra fit is really good. Maybe not the absorbency so much but they fit great for me. I found Northshore has a 2xl pad (not the boosters that you put in a diaper) but I found that if you use one of those I side the depend pants then pull that up and go about your day, they work amazing. For guys, put the wider (normally the side that goes on your bottom) in the front. Because there is more absorbent material, and it’s wider and higher in the front of you use the pad as an insert it works really well. They hold allot. When you finally need to roll up and toss the wet pad then you still have a dry pull-up underneath for on the way home from work.
I use the depend underwear sometimes because the Lycra fit is really good. Maybe not the absorbency so much but they fit great for me. I found Northshore has a 2xl pad (not the boosters that you put in a diaper) but I found that if you use one of those I side the depend pants then pull that up and go about your day, they work amazing. For guys, put the wider (normally the side that goes on your bottom) in the front. Because there is more absorbent material, and it’s wider and higher in the front of you use the pad as an insert it works really well. They hold allot. When you finally need to roll up and toss the wet pad then you still have a dry pull-up underneath for on the way home from work.
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Northshore, thanks for making the 2xl pads. They hold allot and fit great. I know you didn’t really have them designed to bu used in inside another pull-up or for guys to use the back side in the front of the brief but you should market them like that. I got the idea of fitting them in the depend pants because depends frankly suck for real life use. They fit better but their absorbency needs allot of help and the padding always falls out by 6pm because the top sheet separates from the Lycra.
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David,
I had ordered samples from some company in Canada and I think they have them. At least from reading the description. The briefs I tried were one of the most comfortable I have worn. Both versions they suggested. They were expensive though and shipping was also. Wish I could remember the name of the company. Someone on the board recommended the company. If I can remember the name of the company I will let you know.
I had ordered samples from some company in Canada and I think they have them. At least from reading the description. The briefs I tried were one of the most comfortable I have worn. Both versions they suggested. They were expensive though and shipping was also. Wish I could remember the name of the company. Someone on the board recommended the company. If I can remember the name of the company I will let you know.
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@EleanorRose My story is a bit difference since I only deal with bedwetting. So I do not have the worries of day accidents or leaks. But even with 'just bedwetting' I get embarrassed about it sometimes in my own head. I get down on myself saying things in my head like, why are you still peeing the bed at your age, you stay dry like 90% of the time why can't you get it together for the last 10%, and stuff like that. So we do get embarrassed, the key is how we let that get to us.
Now on day embarrassment I can think of two situation as a kid. Once when I peed my pants during lunch at school in 3rd grade and once when I peed my pants in 9th grade
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Now on day embarrassment I can think of two situation as a kid. Once when I peed my pants during lunch at school in 3rd grade and once when I peed my pants in 9th grade
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