@Bobby103 i think you could have been save to assume she was being nasty. That's exactly the same way nosy parents frame that question to other parents when they think their child ought to be potty trained by now. It's a contemptuous remark. That's the way it's framed in the vernacular. If she was saying it ironically, or lightheartedly, it's still inappropriate, because it's a private issues, and she's addressing a stranger.