A truly beautiful and special post from you @Maymay941! I'm glad you went to bed last night with such a feeling of inner peace. And I am thankful this forum is here and that we all have the insight of how to use it in the best way possible. I have not been here all that long myself and I wish I could have gotten to know everyone a lot sooner. Even in this short time I feel enriched and more empowered by everyone here. This forum is a special place for me, just as it is for everyone here.
And you are so right, this incontinence is a gift and we all know how to use that gift to help and encourage others and, as you say, be our best selves. My impression is all of the people here are extraordinary people who not only are great but do great things!