ED is a horrible condition that affects not only yourself but your spouse or partner. Mine started about the same time I become incontinent. Although I have somewhat come to grips with it, but still have bad days both from ED and from the incontinence. My wife says she is ok with it, but who really knows but her. I am sure she deals with it in her own way. I have tried the blue and yellow pills and other methods and devices with very little success. I am in diapers 24/7/365 because I have a neurogenic bladder. My bladder is overactive due to nerve damage. According to my Urologist, there are options but none seem right for me. I've had too many surgeries now and do to other complications they are not options for me. Unless it is life threating, no surgeries. So, diapers, for me, are the way to go for now. Hopefully, something new will come along in the future. I don't mind wearing diapers, it is the constant diaper changes (6 to 8 a day)that gets to me and the way they sag when wet is horrible. If I don't change when they get wet, I get diaper rash or sometimes heat rash. The sagging problem I fixed by using onesies. They look like a tee-shirt but have a flap that goes under the crotch and snaps in front. They hold the diaper up; when they sag the onesie holds them up. I used them on my kids when they ere toddlers. They work great for me; except when you have to go poo. They do take time to undo the snaps, pull down the diaper, and get on the toilet. But, like I said, they work great for me. Anyway, I hope this may help someone else with these problems. I wish all of you the best in your situations. God Bless everyone.
