Welcome BRENDA-- i am pretty new to this forum myself. Good bunch of folks. We all have something in common- well several things. Many different experiences. In agreement with Pammy53 we may not always agree but that's ok since we also differ in many ways. Urine incontinence - over active bladder has become more of a thing than not for me in the last year or so. I also have fecal incontinence but not as frequent and can most of the time if close make it to the bathroom but not so quick with the urine. So this forum has been like a shoulder to lean on and listening ears without the shame. Not everyone is as sympathetic or understanding when they are not going through the same thing. So speak your mind, give suggestions, sound off when frustrated it is all accepted here. Good bunch of folks- good listeners. Welcome.