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@Claytonp I think your grandma is cruel. What she’s doing to you is a form of abuse. I think you should tell her that. There are many men on this forum who put up with being harassed by their parents, step-parents, grandparents, and siblings. They’ve had very traumatic experiences as children and are scarred for life into their adulthood by those experiences. Your grandma has no right to be talking to you that way, nor to be setting alarms, nor to be making you sit on the toilet. That’s physical and sexual abuse. Shame on her. I know you’ll remember what she’s done to you for the rest of your life and I’m sorry to learn that she’s tormenting you this way. I hope your letter helps but you may need to take a stand for yourself and tell her that you and you alone are in charge of your body. She’s not in charge of your body nor your bodily functions. I hope things improve. Keep us posted.