Hi! Incontinence seems more difficult and embarrassing than many other health issues. Remember that everybody has something! If you're a woman, maybe you feel like you should be a Size 10 when you REALLY ARE A 16! Maybe some men who are 5'6" feel like they would rather be 6'2". Maybe you're not athletic but everyone you know is either running a marathon, or hiking or climbing walls. Eventually, every one of us will probably be dealing with some health issue. I think that this cite is wonderful because people are able to share their concerns and so many people generously offer advice. Everyone is always kind, respectful and understanding. I appreciate everyone who responds on this forum.