@Jwh51 I’ve learned to take a washcloth to bite on. You can also try the technique of pinching yourself somewhere to put yourself in more pain than you have when they’re in your urethra, because then it puts you in charge of the worst pain which gives your brain a sense of control, which helps you relax and somehow feel less pain. I prefer to pinch the spot between my forefinger and thumb, that thin fleshy bit. It helps somewhat. This technique definitely helps in moments such as getting dental anesthetic inserted with a needle. I pinch that spot and I win over the dental pain, yahoo! But it definitely doesn’t work with bad chronic pain, like arthritic pain. It works best in acute pain moments.
I should note that my cystoscopy hhurt so bad because my now-retired, former urologist used a rigid scope. It provides them with a sturdier picture. But maybe we should all ask for not-rigid scopes. I get rigid-scoped every time I get Botox (quarterly). My new doctor gives me lidocaine like my last doctor did - but I’ve learned from friends here to instruct her to give it 15 minutes to kick in. That kind of anesthetic takes a while to kick in for me, like the types dentists use. I always need more than they think, and more time for it kick in.
For Botox, which requires that I receive 44 injection points, the lidocaine doesn’t help with the internal bladder pain whatsoever, but it does help the pain from the catheter. A cystoscopy is nothing compared to the pain of getting Botox. I think maybe they always have to use a rigid scope for that so they can also have the needle moving in and out simultaneously??? All I know is that the setup is about the size of my pinky. I took a photo of how big it is compared to other caths.
I’ve also watched the scope screen to see the inside of my bladder. I was surprised to learn that my bladder isn’t just round inside like all the 2D graphics make it out to be, but rather, it has gloppy chambers here and there. Interesting; it helped me understand some of the sensations of peeing, like maybe the front chambers empty the fastest but then I’m waiting and pushing to get the back chambers to evacuate. Anyway - I’m glad I looked at least once! Go for it!
Before I go in for Botox, as per my doctor’s suggestion, I take a Percocet with a Valium and get driven to and from the appointment. Perhaps if you have those meds at your disposal, you can do the same - and/or - ask your urologist for prescriptions to one dose’s worth for the procedure. It *really* helps and you’re only woozy for a few hours.
The bottom line is that aside from bad pain, you will live through it. I know you already have a high pain tolerance so I’m sure you can muster through. I think knowing what to expect in advance is very helpful. I didn’t have that before I had my cystoscopy and urodynamics done; I hadn’t yet found our lifesaving forum. Going in cold to those back-to-back procedures was probably the most vulnerable, unexpectedly humiliating, and embarrassed I’ve ever felt at any medical appointment.
Good luck! Please let us know how your procedure goes!