Bedwetting

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I know the shame you feel, I'm sure others here share it too. Our stuff does not work like others. You are ok, just different. A wet bed or pants is not the end of the world. Hug your wife, be honest with her, love her like she does you. This will be the key. Explain your feelings and problems, find solutions, and never get down on yourself over something so simple. There are ways of dealing with it. It sucks I get that. As a man we find strength in our bodies and stuff that is not the way we think it should be makes us feel less.

@Chris318:

May the Lord Protect you and be your strength in all that you are. I cannot judge as I am only a man - and while I've had other cast judgements upon me here on earth - I know the feelings that you are facing as those feelings were inside my heart at one time due to bladder issues.

In some respects - when my bladder condition worsens - I still feel those feelings.

The Lord tonight is my savior and He is protecting me and best be sure he is protecting you. Sometimes I like to hear my mom tell me these things on the phone as it comforts me to know that she knows of all of my struggles and that the Lord will always be on my side -

I have found religion had helped me fill the void of feeling broken due to bladder problems - but if spirituality is not your thing that is okay!

However you wish to be though of - good blessings or good vibes are always in reach.

Blessings In Christ,
Honeeecombs

 

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Been a nightly bedwetter my whole life.

 

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Bed wetting is a problem, but it can be controlled. Luckily, my wife understands and is supportive. I was a bed wetter till I was 16 and again later in life for a brief period. Now I wear diapers 24/7 due to a neurogenic bladder. I’ve had 5 back surgeries due to a compressed spine. I have a lot of hardware and deal with lots of pain. My last back surgery made me incontinent and basically killed my nerves to my bladder. I cannot tell when I need to pee. I leak all the time (day and night). I just saw my Urologist a few days ago and they want me to Use a catheter 6-8 times a day. I told her no, I’d just wear diapers. She said that was my choice. I’ve used catheters many years and had a surprapubic catheter but it caused me a lot of pain so I had it removed. Diapers are my choice and I really don’t care who knows. I do have my days but for the most part I’m ok with diapers. I’m 64 and retired so it’s mine and my wife’s choice. Yes I wear Diapers, who cares - I need them. Everyone who knows me knows I wear diapers and they all seem fine with it. Attitudes are changing about diapers. I call them diapers because that’s what they are. Not pad, briefs, or anything else - they are diapers. I’ve had many stories of bad experiences but in the end I got through them. I’m a bed wetter too, but it’s ok because those who know me deal with it too. Take care all and enjoy life - it’s a shame to waste it on stupid people who don’t understand. Maybe some day they will.

 

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@chris318 you are strong and awesome. Accepting is a big part of this. I am in the same position in that I live with it, not suffer from it. That was a moment in my life I will never regret or forget. I have been much more open this last year and do not fear someone finding out my underwear is different. Diapers are probably my thing for life and there is much worse to deal with. Be strong, be confident, be happy!

 

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I love you

 

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Thank you

 

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@VeraReign

where are you from?

 

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Been a nightly bedwetter my whole life.

Not all my life but certainly most of it.

 

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Being a bed wetter is embarrassing and can be hard to cope with as an adult, but it’s not the end of the world. Life is good regardless. No one knows you wet the bed unless you tell them. Maybe your parents if you still live at home. Anyway, if you still wet at night and your 18, see a doctor because there is a reason why it is happening. It may be a minor think that can easily be fixed or a serious thing you need to deal with. See your doctor friend. Take care and stop stressing there are a lot of us and we live great lives.