Steveg, lots of guys here more typical than me. I’m 6.6 years out at 76 and holding at <o.01, the important thing. You didn’t say what yours was. I stopped kegels after 3 years in favor of more intense pelvic floor exercises, i.e., distance walking, power yoga, and leg&hip weight machines. 6-8hrs/3X/wk exercise. On off days xeriscaping except in our torrid SW summer. If I’m actually sedentary, I need 1 pad/day. So stress incontinence-little in sleep. Given my pace 2-3/day is usual.
I’ve delayed AUS, as it can have adverse effects, like need for removal/adjustment, infections, etc. But lots of guys here swear by it afterwards. I’m actually considerings a new procedure PROACT, that’s less invasive, in-office, minimal downtime, cheaper and Medicare approved. It’s only been around about 3 years, while AUS has long track record. Best, Look to this blog!