I was prescribed Solifenacin (name brand is VESIcare) at 6 months. I also tried Myrbetriq and Gemtessa - newer with free samples (did not add to much to reduce leakage). The older Solifenacin worked best for me.
The medicine helps with bladder - spasms, OAB (Over Active Bladder), incontinence, etc.
It can take up to a year to recover. You seem to be making good progress. Most men see improvements at 4 to 6 months. Some weeks seems like no improvement, then a month or 2 later almost dry.
Kegels and seeing a pelvic floor physical therapist helped me. Kegels will be a lifetime practice.
5 months - 30 oz; stopped muscle relaxer; nighttime from 2.3 down to 1.4 oz
6 - 7 months - 20 oz; started Solifenacin for OAB; decrease due to Solifenacin.
8 - 9 months - 17 oz; Myrbetriq and Gemtessa - did NOT provide much improvement and are not covered by my insurance
The following is more than you asked - it is the whole text file. I put the pertaint part above.
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My journey - notes that I made for my doctor visits. I weighed my pads and pullups, kept a spreadsheet, and converted averages to ounces. I used a digital kitchen scale measuring in grams - 1 gram equals 1 milliliter (close enough for comparisons).
Incontinence as I see it.
Type of leakage - standing - constant (overt) dripping every 2 to 10 seconds - bladder neck / external sphincter not closing.
While I am able to keep from squirting as I am standing up, the urine dribbles or slow flow out within a few seconds. I am able to hold some urine in until I make to the bathroom.
I am able to push urine out (increase the flow rate) in the bathroom ( which I could not do or feel at 4 months).
My progression (leakage in ounces)
2 months - 60 oz; nighttime 2 pullups (strong stream shoots out Depend pullup using Northshore Go Supreme pullups)
3 months - 40 oz; nighttime 1 pullup (6 to 17 ounces)
4 months - 30 oz; Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy; nighttime from 4.3 down to 2.3 oz
5 months - 30 oz; stopped muscle relaxer; nighttime from 2.3 down to 1.4 oz
6 - 7 months - 20 oz; started Solifenacin for OAB; decrease due to Solifenacin.
8 - 9 months - 17 oz; Myrbetriq and Gemtessa - did NOT provide much improvement and are not covered by my insurance
10 months - 17 oz; Urodynamics and cystoscopy - schedule male urethral sling surgery - 17 oz
12 months - Male Urethral Sling Surgery - (Sept 2022 one year - I recommend the sling surgery)
13-16 months - self-catheterizations (1 weeks 4 times day; then twice a day; daily; then weekly; then stopped)
17 months to now (24 months) - I leak about a quarter of ounce at night. If I take migraine or headache medicine, I will leak more. I went down to just a pad in my underwear until April 29, 2022 when I released out of the pad and had to change my sheets in the middle of the night. I will always have the above sheet bed pad and wear depend pullup, pad, and underwear.