Wife incontinence

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Yeah you should probably back off then. Frustrating as it is you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. At some point I'd probably tell her to stop calling me to come pick her up when she has accidents if she wants to continue to refuse to manage her condition responsibly.

 

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Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with mike at this point. She doesn't want help, she just wants sympathy.

 

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My problem is that I love her so much and do not want to see her to continue embarrassing herself by wetting her pants in public places. It doesn't bother me anymore on the homefront but just can't handle her embarrassing herself

 

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If you want to help her, you need to be sure you don't inadvertantly become the enemy.

You don't want a situation where she feels she needs to hide it from you well, because she's afraid you'll try to help.

 

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How could she hide it from me and I'm her husband who lives with her and sleeps with her when she wets the bed

 

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I mostly meant the at work, out of the house incidents; but you'd be surprised with what a lot of us have gotten away with.

I've wet the bed with my wife in it numerous times without her knowing, and at one point wet my pants (down to my shoes) at a friend's house, and successful hid it for over an hour before I left.

 

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Hmm ...

 

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The above depiction is certainly my wife, she is in denial of her problem

 

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I honestly don't get your wife's reluctance to wear protection. Giving in to wearing diapers or even pullups is a very personal choice and very difficult to make but it's much better than the alternative. I wet myself in public twice. Well twice where it resulted in a very noticeable wet spot. Once getting off the commuter train at the end of the day and once in the mall food court. I'm not sure if anyone saw me the train day, but in the food court I'm 100% certain MANY people saw me do the walk to shame out of the mall with soaked pants. I saw teenage girls snickering, other adults look my up and down and then avert eye contact etc. It was brutal. No way to hide it and a long way to walk in full view of lots of people. I could never go through that again. No way. I'll take a super bulky obvious diaper over that level of humiliation any day. And really, even bulky diapers become quite unnoticeable under normal clothing.

You may have posted it already but how old is your wife? Just wondering if she's old enough for this to be somewhat common for women her age of if she's "too young" for this which might explain the difficulty she's having.

 

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She will be 48 tomorrow and next Friday will have a hysterectomy done so I'm sure her incontinence issues will get worse

 

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Well Saturday was my birthday and she took me out to eat and then to a local night club for some drinks and dance some .. Well needless to say after approx.4 hours of being at the bar I noticed that she had wet herself very bad and very noticeable I ask her did she wear her depend and she said yes. So we had to leave and while walking out numerous looks we're giving to her but no one said anything, except the security guard ask us if she was driving since I guess she was walking weird since she was intoxicated but I told him that I was driving her home and he told us to be careful. She seemed as if she didn't care the next morning when I told her what she had done But I guess she might better to wear a heavier diaper when we go out to drink

 

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This is suspect - why would someone who claims to love his wife 'so much' post this on a forum that she has said she doesn't want to take part in? This looks like one of 2 things - psychological abuse or a couple of fetishists getting their kicks. Will the moderators please, at the very least remove this photo AND explain the concept of proper behavior to this Mr. Tazman? Thanks in advance.

 

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Agree. I was going along with this the whole time and giving him the benefit of the doubt but this picture is messed up. If this story were true theres no way his wife would let that pic be taken and secondly why the hell do you think anyone wants to see a pic like that anyway? Take your fetish crap to adisc or something.

 

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Agree with posts previous. I also 'red flagged' the photo so admin takes note. Suggest others 'red flag' such inappropriate content when it appears. We don't want it - simple as that!

We've been TROLLED.

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...thanks admin! quick response in clearing this up.

 

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Thanks for dealing with this.

 

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I am wondering, however, why this guy is still here...

 

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I am sorry that the photo offended you all but my wife was the person that wanted me to post it. Once again sorry if it was offensive

 

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So she's so embarrassed about her problems she won't go to the doctor or even wear protection, but she wanted you to post a picture of her on an online forum of strangers?

Probably best if you just move along.

 

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Yeah we're not stupid dude. Take your fap story somewhere else

 

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So she's so embarrassed about her problems she won't go to the doctor or even wear protection, but she wanted you to post a picture of her on an online forum of strangers?

Probably best if you just move along.

@Sylvia:

Good call.