Hello all. I'm still new here and so I'm exploring the topics to see which ones may have information that can help me get through my situation.
I am a 68 y/o Vietnam Veteran, 25th Infantry Division, with 10 years total service. My last duty assignment was as an Instructor at the BT Center at Fort Dix and I have, since leaving active duty, kept myself in pretty decent physical condition with very few serious health problems over my lifetime. Until now.
At a recent VA annual physical exam my PSA count was 21.53 - way beyond normal range - and a DRE determined that my prostate was very enlarged and has at least one lump in one quadrant so I have been scheduled for a TRUS biopsy at the VA Hospital in Providence, RI in a couple of weeks. In the interim I have been prescribed Tamsulosin which, among other things, has an infrequent but somewhat embarrassing side effect: occasional bed wetting. After the first time this happened I - reluctantly - bought a bag of Depend Flex-Fit pull-ups and wear one to bed "just in case". They suck (can I say "suck" here?) and if I wet heavily they tend to leak possibly because I tend to move around a lot at night.
Anyway, until I receive a pathology report with the Gleason Score and Staging information, I cannot say for certain that I have prostate cancer or, if I do, what the treatment will be. I do understand though, from the VA's site, MyHealtheVet, that the majority of Agent Orange (dioxin) related prostate cancers are aggressive and may require surgical removal of the gland, resulting in a higher likelihood of urinary incontinence than what I am currently experiencing.
So - the question - if the Flex-Fit pull-ups I am currently using for occasional bed wetting are only marginally useful, what can I expect from the VA with respect to adult diapers if incontinence becomes a 24/7 problem? (I buy the product on my own right now since my situation won't be classified as a service related disability until and unless a clear cancer diagnosis is determined.)
Yeah, I also tend to be a wordy bastard (can I say "bastard" here?) so bear with me guys!