First, we're all different with different needs. Here's what I do. I tried diapers with wings and, with my poor eyesight, always had difficulty with them. So, I switched to a pull-up. I like Depends because their easy to get online (Costco) as well as when I'm traveling, which I'm not doing right now - Thank you Covid-19. I double-up on the number of pads I insert with Depends. Without any pads, I get about 2 hours before I need a change. With two pads (both with their paper backs removed, showing the adhesive), about 3.5 to 5 hours. On a long flight, I'll use three pads, not noticeable since I'm sitting. I was able to fly non-stop from Portland, OR to Hawaii (7 hours). Of course, when I got there, I had to change, but I was able to avoid those incredibly tiny bathrooms on the plane. Also, I've discovered that, because my profession forces time to sit (piano playing), this exerts extra pressure on me, preventing too much leakage. As I said, we're all different, with different needs. Hope this may help someone out there. Stay happy, safe, and healthy.
