If im honest with you all, the odour of incontinence is something that you cant ever get under control, no matter how hard you try.
I have worn nappies all my life due to urinary incontinence and my undercarriage constantly smells. Even when im just out the shower or bath, there is still a residual odour, no matter how much a scrub. I suppose its only to be expected when your privates are constantly stewing in your own pee.
I've had sexual partners leave me because they say i always smell down there and that they are sick of the pee smell from my wet nappies, in bed when they wake up in the morning.
I was always smelly as a kid and was ostracised because of it. I was ridiculed, humiliated and bearated for years because of my accidents by kids and adults alike.
Ive had UTIs and a female friend once told me that i had a strong odour when weve been out in public. I was horrified and scurried off to the toilet with my hand bag, only to discover that although she could smell me, i was barley damp. I made my excuses and went home shortly after that because i was worried that people could smell my incontinence.
All in all, incontinence smells and no matter how hard ive tried, ive never managed to beat it.