Thanks 1reginald57. I am really sorry for what you had to go through, and what you are now still experiencing. Wow, that is terrible! Thanks for sharing you expertise. I do not even know if TURP is the way to go for me, as I have no problems during the day, regarding incontinence, only when I go to bed (and that is spotty - i.e, does not always result in an "accident"). I was think that the TURP would take care of my problem, but given some of the responses I have received, I think I may be going at it the wrong way. Thanks again for your important feedback. I have been forwarned.