My preferred disposable diaper was ConfiDry, until they went out of business. Since then, I've been using BetterDry diapers with good results, compared to Depends and Tena. (I have not tried XP5000.)
At home, I usually wear cloth diapers with plastic pants at night time, and BetterDry diapers in the daytime. However, when traveling, I tend to use only disposable diapers. I have found that BetterDry diapers RARELY leak for me at bedtime, where as with the ConfiDry diapers, I usually had to wear plastic pants over them to prevent leaks.