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I had something on my mind tonight because i havent been able to talk with you guys because of a personal situation where i had a jilted lover whom found my information on this site.
So this jilted lover i felt bad for while i was in a training class because he had a type A personality and didnt really connect with others but turned out to be really bad news. After graduating from our class and orientation i worked with a woman who sat next to myself whom told me prior to working with us - this jilted lover worked for the state with the mentally handicapped and physically disabled. He apparently got really paranoid and thats when i found out he was recording others and probably myself when he was playing footsies with myself at a local cafe.
So i started putting two and two together and i distanced myself from this jilted lover. But have you ever felt different because of your disability or continence issues? Have you ever felt used? When i opened up to this person about my pre existing bladder condition; he related to me but after the fact i felt preyed on.
Its something thats been affecting myself for a long time; because sometimes we need people in our life to help, protect and support us with our issues - and thats something that ive personally been trying to work on.
Over the past few years of developing OAB syndrome; urgency issues and leaking - ive learned being back in my body i dont want to be in - i need the support and protection from others. I suppose thats why i need more good people in my life. My dad and step mother put on this facade as if i dont exist in 50% of there life - and the memories of countless accidents and humiliating experiences in my life - ive learned that when it comes to facing bladder issues; any body in this world who is facing this real issue - deserves people in there life that is going to own up and help that person.
Because at the end of the day; i don't want to wear a diaper.
Amen,
HC
So this jilted lover i felt bad for while i was in a training class because he had a type A personality and didnt really connect with others but turned out to be really bad news. After graduating from our class and orientation i worked with a woman who sat next to myself whom told me prior to working with us - this jilted lover worked for the state with the mentally handicapped and physically disabled. He apparently got really paranoid and thats when i found out he was recording others and probably myself when he was playing footsies with myself at a local cafe.
So i started putting two and two together and i distanced myself from this jilted lover. But have you ever felt different because of your disability or continence issues? Have you ever felt used? When i opened up to this person about my pre existing bladder condition; he related to me but after the fact i felt preyed on.
Its something thats been affecting myself for a long time; because sometimes we need people in our life to help, protect and support us with our issues - and thats something that ive personally been trying to work on.
Over the past few years of developing OAB syndrome; urgency issues and leaking - ive learned being back in my body i dont want to be in - i need the support and protection from others. I suppose thats why i need more good people in my life. My dad and step mother put on this facade as if i dont exist in 50% of there life - and the memories of countless accidents and humiliating experiences in my life - ive learned that when it comes to facing bladder issues; any body in this world who is facing this real issue - deserves people in there life that is going to own up and help that person.
Because at the end of the day; i don't want to wear a diaper.
Amen,
HC
