3 years and 3 months post surgery and 1 yr and 8 months post radiation. I almost got dry about 10 months after the surgery in Aug 2018. After 40 radiation treatments in Feb- Aug 2020, incontinence slowly got worse. Exercises and drugs did not help. I was 1 to 2 pads per day, depending on amount of activity. I finally had the male sling surgery about 10 days ago and have been dry since sling operation. If you have mild incontinence (defined as 1 to 3 pads per day) and the Dr considers you a good candidate for the sling operation, I would strongly consider it. I had the Advance XP sling manufactured by Boston Scientific. The procedure is about 1 hour and fairly easy outpatient surgery. Recovery is not painful, but is uncomfortable. I won’t know the full effect for about 6 more weeks when I can be fully active, but completely dry so far with just minor activity.
ED is also a problem. Viagra helps but I will never be as good as before. Loss of length and girth is also a problem made somewhat worse by partial erections.
But I am still cancer free after the radiation. Thank God for that.