This something, I think would really help you. Its called ApexM . All you have to do is goggle it and you will get information on it. I just read Cleveland Clinc endorses it at least one of the Drs. I purchased one, and I think it is working . I can tell a difference. Just goggle apexm and lots of different sites and info comes up. I started leeking like you did and now I also have urge,stress and OAB bladder.The company thatn sells them is called In Control.If you dial the phone No. you get to talk to a very helpful an nice clinitian. they are so helpful and they give you lots of incourage.
good luck and let me know what you think of it.