Hi@MikeD9876, sure no problem, I normally use BetterDry medium, abena m4, xp5000's and rearz incontrol diapers. All I do is when changing my diaper for nightime I first of all I open up my diaper, bring it up, put the rear of the diaper lined up with my rear side, stand against wall and then I bring up the front side and pull the front wings firmly but not too tight between each leg and while I'm holding the front wing, I put on the lower tapes on first and then carefully you push your genital downward towards middle of diaper and then firmly tape up the upper part of the the wings. Then I put on my kins clear soft pul diaper cover over my diaper and that keeps everything in place. I also move around alot at night. And finally. I use a re washable bed protector from NorthShore care, and that's how manage nightly without any problems. A good tip is if you buy a diaper cover, make sure it is snug fitting or you can use a shapper undergarment those work really well also, hope this helps.