I too have a neurogenic bladder (NB), since 2016 when I had a compression of the spinal cord between C3 and C6 as a result of this I was completely paralyzed. However, I have regained use of both my arms and legs they are just extremely weak hence I have to use a wheelchair. Further complicating things as a result of the compression my brain suffered from oxygen starvation which was then further exacerbated a few weeks later when I had a massive bleed out. Thus within just 4 weeks, I had 2 near death experiences, the second one being the closest as I was whisked off to the hospital with no measurable blood pressure this caused additional brain injury due to oxygen starvation.
That is the background to my neurogenic bladder, like "justej" I have to use a diaper at night and then pull-ups during the day I get mine from tyemedical.com. By making use of their 2 part system I am saving boatloads on the purchasing of these products. I try to catheterize every 4 hours but if I get a sudden pressure on my penis or I start to leak pee then obviously the 4 hours gets reduced. As you know with a neurogenic bladder you just never truly know when you will have to go and if I decide not to use a catheter then I never know by how much my bladder will empty without the aid of the catheter. Because I have no feeling until it is too late without the pull-ups during the day I would be constantly wetting my pants and at night I am completely unaware of wetting the diaper. At 61 this is the last thing I expected and in all honesty, this has been the hardest thing to have to come to terms with. Now I try to keep it light and handle it with my normal-dry sense of humor because having an NB sure keeps you on your toes. I wish you all the best and I am always checking in to this support group, as I honestly think the guys here are the best and are always available to help or just be a sounding board for you to rant and vent at. So if I can be of any help please do not hesitate to ask me