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@Honeeecombs, invalidating someone’s sexual assault experience is completely inappropriate. You need to pull your head in.

I'm not invalidating it; I am simply pointing out the facts.

There is nothing wrong with "the facts". Prior to Boopsie61 - the account may have been under the username "Elizabethtretln" from what I recall based on a personal situation where I am a victim of a henious act out in the Midwest.

Furthermore after coming back on here - the account "Erin" which shares the same IP address as "Midwest Guy" may be an adult who is posing as an underage girl.

With that being said, and that this is NOT a forum dedicated to Sexual Assault in the sense that we communicate about the specifics of sexual based material so I filed a tip with the National Association for Missing and Exploited Children because if an adult is posing as a minor regardless of whether it is law enforcement, minor, of adult - this is not the place to share specifics of that sexual trauma.

In short, it is putting minors at risk of Exploitation.

So yes, I do still feel I did the right thing tonight. I can go to bed knowing that.

Blessings In Christ,
Honeeecombs

 

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@Honeeecombs, invalidating someone’s sexual assault experience is completely inappropriate. You need to pull your head in.

I'm not invalidating it; I am simply pointing out the facts.

There is nothing wrong with "the facts". Prior to Boopsie61 - the account may have been under the username "Elizabethtretln" from what I recall based on a personal situation where I am a victim of a henious act out in the Midwest.

Furthermore after coming back on here - the account "Erin" which shares the same IP address as "Midwest Guy" may be an adult who is posing as an underage girl.

With that being said, and that this is NOT a forum dedicated to Sexual Assault in the sense that we communicate about the specifics of sexual based material so I filed a tip with the National Association for Missing and Exploited Children because if an adult is posing as a minor regardless of whether it is law enforcement, minor, of adult - this is not the place to share specifics of that sexual trauma.

In short, it is putting minors at risk of Exploitation.


Honeeecombs,

You speak of being exploited, yet shame someone and do not give any benefit of the doubt! People are here for support, and who do you think you are?? No matter looking into IP addresses and such is beyond creepy and out of line. There was nothing directed at you, just move on.

 

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That is what I am worried about. And I don't see how an aisle seat will help if I am not allowed to go to the bathroom.

I always wear a fairly heavy brief when I have to fly. Otherwise I spend the whole flight worrying that they'll suddenly turn on the seat belt sign just as I'm about to get up to use the restroom, and I'll end up unable to hold it. With a brief, I at least know that an accident will be a no more than a minor inconvenience.

I haven't flown since I got my Interstim a year and a half ago, and I worry about the TSA screening that I know I'll have to go through.

 

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@Honeeecombs, invalidating someone’s sexual assault experience is completely inappropriate. You need to pull your head in.

I'm not invalidating it; I am simply pointing out the facts.

There is nothing wrong with "the facts". Prior to Boopsie61 - the account may have been under the username "Elizabethtretln" from what I recall based on a personal situation where I am a victim of a henious act out in the Midwest.

Furthermore after coming back on here - the account "Erin" which shares the same IP address as "Midwest Guy" may be an adult who is posing as an underage girl.

With that being said, and that this is NOT a forum dedicated to Sexual Assault in the sense that we communicate about the specifics of sexual based material so I filed a tip with the National Association for Missing and Exploited Children because if an adult is posing as a minor regardless of whether it is law enforcement, minor, of adult - this is not the place to share specifics of that sexual trauma.

In short, it is putting minors at risk of Exploitation.


Honeeecombs,

You speak of being exploited, yet shame someone and do not give any benefit of the doubt! People are here for support, and who do you think you are?? No matter looking into IP addresses and such is beyond creepy and out of line. There was nothing directed at you, just move on.

I am a victim of a haneious act out of state. Again, as I stated - in the Midwest. I have more than enough evidence and data that I have transmitted to the proper governing authorities to know when others are trying to throw somebody's abuse under the rug - especially when that abuse involves continence issues.

I did not look into others IP address - I am simply remembering another users post from the past in which after coming back on here another user stated the IP address similarities. Because of that, I made the connection in this thread and it's inappropriate nature.

I'm hoping fingers crossed the Center for Missing and Exploited Children will take a look into my own profile and see the similarities in posts and connections and do there own investigation on here so I don't have to.

That's true intelligence - keeping people (including myself) safe.

Blessings In Christ,
Honeeecombs

 

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I'm not invalidating it; I am simply pointing out the facts.

There is nothing wrong with "the facts". Prior to Boopsie61 - the account may have been under the username "Elizabethtretln" from what I recall based on a personal situation where I am a victim of a henious act out in the Midwest.

Furthermore after coming back on here - the account "Erin" which shares the same IP address as "Midwest Guy" may be an adult who is posing as an underage girl.

With that being said, and that this is NOT a forum dedicated to Sexual Assault in the sense that we communicate about the specifics of sexual based material so I filed a tip with the National Association for Missing and Exploited Children because if an adult is posing as a minor regardless of whether it is law enforcement, minor, of adult - this is not the place to share specifics of that sexual trauma.

In short, it is putting minors at risk of Exploitation.

So yes, I do still feel I did the right thing tonight. I can go to bed knowing that.

Blessings In Christ,
Honeeecombs

Okay, so let's see if we can figure out your grand conspiracy theory.

Who is the child who is being exploited? Can't be me, 'cause you think I'm an adult posing as a child. You also think Erin and MidwestGuy are the same person.

Who is doing the exploiting? MidwestGuy hasn't made a single post. I have not posted about a sexual assault.

It was Boopsie who told her story about an assault. So... you think Boopsie is somehow exploiting a child by telling that story?

So you sent a "tip" to the authorities? Explaining that someone wrote about their experience of a sexual assault on the internet, and... OMG there might be someone under age 18 who is READING what they wrote? And you think that's a crime? That's going to be investigated by the Center for Missing and Exploited Children?

Oh, wait... somehow this is all connected to something that happened to YOU in the midwest. And it's also connected to someone named Elizabeth.

So Boopsie is really Elizabeth, and Erin is really MidwestGuy, and... okay, so where are the children who are missing or exploited?

Are they being held captive in the basement of a pizza shop? By the people who stole the election from Trump?

Am I getting all the FACTS, Honeeecombs?

 

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I'm not invalidating it; I am simply pointing out the facts.

There is nothing wrong with "the facts". Prior to Boopsie61 - the account may have been under the username "Elizabethtretln" from what I recall based on a personal situation where I am a victim of a henious act out in the Midwest.

Furthermore after coming back on here - the account "Erin" which shares the same IP address as "Midwest Guy" may be an adult who is posing as an underage girl.

With that being said, and that this is NOT a forum dedicated to Sexual Assault in the sense that we communicate about the specifics of sexual based material so I filed a tip with the National Association for Missing and Exploited Children because if an adult is posing as a minor regardless of whether it is law enforcement, minor, of adult - this is not the place to share specifics of that sexual trauma.

In short, it is putting minors at risk of Exploitation.

So yes, I do still feel I did the right thing tonight. I can go to bed knowing that.

Blessings In Christ,
Honeeecombs

Okay, so let's see if we can figure out your grand conspiracy theory.

Who is the child who is being exploited? Can't be me, 'cause you think I'm an adult posing as a child. You also think Erin and MidwestGuy are the same person.

Who is doing the exploiting? MidwestGuy hasn't made a single post. I have not posted about a sexual assault.

It was Boopsie who told her story about an assault. So... you think Boopsie is somehow exploiting a child by telling that story?

So you sent a "tip" to the authorities? Explaining that someone wrote about their experience of a sexual assault on the internet, and... OMG there might be someone under age 18 who is READING what they wrote? And you think that's a crime? That's going to be investigated by the Center for Missing and Exploited Children?

Oh, wait... somehow this is all connected to something that happened to YOU in the midwest. And it's also connected to someone named Elizabeth.

So Boopsie is really Elizabeth, and Erin is really MidwestGuy, and... okay, so where are the children who are missing or exploited?

Are they being held captive in the basement of a pizza shop? By the people who stole the election from Trump?

Am I getting all THE FACTS, Honeeecombs?

Well actually you are Erin. Because you have two different writing styles.

Allow myself to explain;

In one sense you type like an angry underage internet user and then in the other - you type like an intelligent individual.

That would be the inner workings of either A. An individual posing as a minor. B. An Adult or Group of People trying to create a "false" account.

Again, I firmly believe my tip to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children was warranted because it shows a RISK to minors. I'm not saying a specific minor or individual; but a RISK.

Even if this is the workings of say a group of adults - you are fostering an environment in this community that should not be tolersted and should be investigated.

I firmly believe this and definitely approve this message.

Blessings In Christ,
Honeeecombs

 

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this is not the place to share specifics of that sexual trauma.

In short, it is putting minors at risk of Exploitation.

So you think Boopsie should not be allowed to write in this forum about what happened to her when she was a child? Because if she posts that information, it is putting minors at risk of exploitation?

You're completely f**king crazy.

 

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I always wear a fairly heavy brief when I have to fly. Otherwise I spend the whole flight worrying that they'll suddenly turn on the seat belt sign just as I'm about to get up to use the restroom, and I'll end up unable to hold it. With a brief, I at least know that an accident will be a no more than a minor inconvenience.

I haven't flown since I got my Interstim a year and a half ago, and I worry about the TSA screening that I know I'll have to go through.

I can't get briefs. I'm lucky if I don't run out of pads. I guess I just have to pray that I will be able to use the bathroom when I have to go.

 

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Hello,

You may want to get a TSA pre-check, I believe it currently costs $85. During your interview time, explain about your use of diaper or pad and your incontinence. Since you will have already been fingerprinted and screened, you may find that TSA will be "less thorough" than they would with someone who has not had the TSA pre-check. Additionally, you may find that you are treated in a more sympathetic manner. Possibly, the pre-check will also add to your confidence and cause you to feel less intimidated. I realize that $85 may seem excessive but, the pre-check lasts 5 yrs before renewal and, the cost may be less that a therapy session. Even if you fly only once in 5 yrs., the stress relief might be worth it. There are no guarantees; however, it might be worth a try. Just remember to be "up front" during the interview. Remember the interviewer is looking for criminals who are hiding something. Giving more information (rather than less) is preferable. Explaining the nuances of your travel problems with incontinence may strike a nerve. Most people are sensitive to another's problems. Relating your experience with TSA might encourage them to rethink their policy regarding individuals with incontinence. Through you, others may benefit. Take care and remember that everyone has some kind of physical condition - apparent or not apparent. There is no shame in this. I wish you well.

 

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That is what I am worried about. And I don't see how an aisle seat will help if I am not allowed to go to the bathroom.

Correct - it won't help with that situation, but it does make it easier all other times. I don't have to climb over the other passengers. (It also makes getting off the plane quicker.)

 

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I fly all the time and Regina is spot on with TSA Precheck as a way to avoid scrutiny as well as get through the check in line. Well worth the $85!

 

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Hello all. Thank you Regina for that info. That would explain the money being paid that the TSA worker made mention of at the end of the search. All I remember was her saying, "If you continue to wear the protective underwear I can guarantee you will be tagged everytime." We thought they were looking for drugs. I also just remembered that when she was done going down the crack of my butt she took what looked to me like an alcohol wipe and used it to wipe her gloved hand. We were told it wasn't an alcohol wipe but it would check for residue from explosives. Strange how bits and pieces from that experience are slowly coming back. I just remember thinking I'm going to faint or puke. I cannot tolerate being touched by a stranger without my permission-I will freak out everytime. But I also realize that if you want to get on that plane you'll have to tolerate whatever. And this is why I say: "NEVER, EVER AGAIN" Amtrack- here we come!!