I have it as a result of radiation damaging my spinal cord--about three years since the radiation treatments (to clear up any errant cancer cells after myeloma surgery on my spine.) I only got a proper diagnosis one year ago, and have had a novel treatment with a cancer infusion treatment to help the necrotic lesions on my spine heal--this was my greatest stroke of luck ever! However, no one told me until four months ago that I was almost certanily retaining urine (comes with SCIs). Peeing was getting harder for me anyway, and I began cathing 3xday with impressive collections of urine! A urogynecologist has been helping me the past two or three months to retrain my bladder so that I am now naturally peeing more than is being cathed. First, she cleared up a UTI that was pretty bad before I could actually feel something was not right. She prescribed Flomax to help my uretha relax and release urine. That should also help my brain and the nerves to my perianal area get re-oriented. We are hoping that I am able to restore urinary function and pee more normally and be in charge of it! I am female, and am using the intermittent catheter kits (not so easy as my husband has to help me and it's a bit of a production.) I was scheduled to get a suprapubic catheter yesterday,part of the plan to wean me off of cathing, but the interventional radiologist performing it insisted I be off of Eliquis for FIVE DAYS, although my PCP had said only two days. (I had a pulmonary embolism 1 month after the back surgery!) I don't know how many weeks this will be put back to reschedule now, but I was looking forward to having more control and less bother than cathing required (although I will have to have the suprapublic draining tube replaced monthly or so. I should also add that my outstanding APN/NP sister had me start getting pelvic floor therapy during early onset of symptoms--a great suggestion that I think has helped me maintain what control I have and have gained.