Welcome!
I’ve been dealing with neurogenic bladder, as well as IC & painful bladder spasms since an accident in my 20’s, and 30 years later I can assure you it does get easier. It was a crushing blow when it happened, even more so when I realized it would never heal, and no matter how hard I worked at it, it wasn’t going to change anything.
Instead I those to focus those energies at learning how to adapt, yet still live a “FULL” life. Looking back I think I’ve done exactly that.I still get up and go wherever my knees & back will take me, every single day!
This is a great place to discuss things that might be awkward elsewhere, and judgement is simply not tolerated.
Wish you all the best!