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I wrote a similar post on another support network, but thought I would get any thoughts here as well. At times I have a lot of guilt associated with my incontinence. I have had bladder control problems for most of my life, so why can't I get over this? Since my combined prostatectomy/diverticulotomy my issues haven't improved. I can have a series of dry days, then a bunch of wet days. No consistency. Sometimes I think maybe this is mental, or am I just lazy? I have worn some type of protection for many years...mostly diapers, but the guilt is still present. How do others solve these thoughts, or is it just part of the condition?