Tonight I tried fluffing my Depend Night Defense in the dryer for one minute. I also v’d the crotch. Again, it’s slightly more comfortable but I don’t think it’s fluffier, per se. Maybe that’s because there isn’t that much padding in a Depend? I always imagine that a Northshore Megamax (or other expensive, high-end, mail order diapers) are made of wall to wall padding? If so, I can imagine one of those getting more fluffed up. To me a Depend is never fully comfortable because of the 5” of thick, tight elastic on your thighs and stomach, which probably has to be true of any diaper, unfortunately, or else urine will leak out.
Ever since I could talk, I started telling my mom that when I wore pants, I got stomach aches. It’s still true to this day. I try to wear dresses as much as possible because waistbands give me stomach aches. Somehow it never really occurred to me to talk to a doctor about it because I figured they’re just going to say I’m making it up and there’s no reason that would happen. I do still wear pants sometimes and of course when I do, I constantly have a stomachache. It doesn’t matter if it’s button up or elastic, baggie, or tight. Part of the problem is that I have a really high waist and pants are made for low waists so they just never really fit me right. Im no longer very tall - only 5’6” thanks to Osteoporosis and Osteoarthritis, but I used to be 5’8.5” tall and pants really didn’t fit me well back then. Too tall.