Hi Bedwetter, I think you have the right attitude to be just fine with wearing protection and just being who you are. There is enough to worry about with the pandemic that when you found one less thing to stress about it really puts you ahead of the game. As for having a nerve stimulator implant I, too, would hold off on that if I were you. It may be minor surgery, but hey, surgery is surgery! And that in itself adds to stress. If at this point you feel you don't need it, then don't be afraid to say so. Besdies the urologist can find someone else to help finance his next Maserati payment! It's good you're happy with your status quo and that makes things much easier, I'm sure! Good to see someone being fine with who she is!