@Neves
Your case sounds exactly like mine. Undetectable PSA, but very little bladder control. I had some bladder control when lying down. And some when sitting down. At first, before I stood up I'd reach inside my diaper and put a choke hold on my Dick and get over the toilet and release the choke hold. Then, after doing thousands of Kegel exercises over a period of time, right before I stood up I'd clamp down hard and was able to make it to the bathroom.
The problem is when walking around the Piss just constantly drips out. It is impossible to hold a pelvic floor contraction for several hours and walk at the same time. Looks like this is a permanent thing.
Other than diapers and pads, there's only one other non-surgical choice.
A condom catheter also called a condom drain. It looks like a condom and a hose is attached to the tip that runs down to a bag attached to your ankle. The bag has a drain valve at the bottom. When it gets almost full you just put your foot up on the toilet seat and open the valve. Way better than diapers/pads. You can't wear it 24/7 tho. So I wear the condom drain in the daytime, and pads/diapers at night.
After a couple of months you adapt, and this just becomes a part of your life. Like wearing eye-glasses or dentures. The biggest hassle is hygiene. Piss stinks hellabad. A few drops here, some dribbles there, and pretty soon your whole house stinks like stale Piss.
When at home, I take off diaper in the shower. Drips go down the drain and I can rinse myself off with just plain hot water from the waist down.
Other things that help: An air tight container for the Piss soaked diapers and pads. Baby wipes for when you can't shower. Shave off ALL your pubic hair, including your Nut-Sack and around your Ass-Hole if you have a hairy Ass. (Don't shave them off down to the skin however. Bumps will manifest, turn red, get irritated and infected) Amazon sells absorbent pads for the seat of your car "just in case" ---
Just received from Amazon the K-fit Kegel Toner for Men - Electric Pelvic Muscle Exerciser for Automatic Kegels
4.4 out of 5 stars
$159.95 --
This is the home version of the multi-thousand dollar device used in Urology re-hab Clinic.
You insert a small probe up your Asshole. (probe is VERY small, you've shit bigger turds) Then, you apply an electric current to the probe that stimulates your pelvic floor muscle. This works just like the TENS units used to stimulate external muscles. This device was recommended by my Urologist. I will test it out today.
There are several Surgical options and all of them except one scare the fucking bejeeters out of me.
It's called ATOMS device for bladder control. Developed in Austria and used in Europe for the last 5 years with a 100% sucess rate, recently approved by the FDA for use in this Country.
YouTube video's explain how it works:
Hope this information helps you. Cheers.