I ordered "protection" after posting

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For everyone that read my posts last year and over this week, Thank you for being so kind. I just ordered "protection" as many of you suggested. I was in denial and I'm still embarrassed, but I think it will help (only for when I'm in the office). I think sitting at a desk all day at work is the biggest issue for me because at home, I can go the bathroom as much as I want and no one cares. But in the office I work in, we're in a big room, no cubicles so I feel self conscious about going a lot or literally running to the bathroom (because sometimes I do a little jog, speed walk but don't want it to be obvious). I appreciate the reality check that you all gave me even though I'm still not 100% sure why I didn't grow out of this yet. I think it's more mental than anything for me, I was told I have ADD (not hyperactive just inattentive) when I was 12 but my family ignored it once my grades went up. Not sure if that's why I focus so hard that I forget to go try or don't feel it until it's an emergency.
I'm trying Natracare products, they're organic. Good luck to everyone here, wish you all the best on your journeys.

 

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I accidentally made a new topic, SORRY. I meant to add to an old one. I typed with my glasses off

 

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You're alright Ayam.
Steady as she goes.(old sailing term meaning keep on keeping on)

 

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Yam you are so welcome for the suggestions. I am glad you finally decided to try protection. I’m hoping it will help with your anxiety. Take care and I pray you are able to come to terms with all your issues. Life is sweet and I want you to enjoy your journey.

 

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It’s all kind of a pain, but I think it does help to take charge of things. Well done!

 

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Congratulations, Ayam,for taking the big step and trying protection. I wish you much ease now that you no longer have to run to the bathroom when you're at work.
I wonder if you have ever tried "timed voids." Just set your alarm for every 2-3 hours, then try going to the bathroom before it's urgent. It is a pain, and sometimes I don't feel like getting up just to try, but it can be worth it.

 

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@patrusky Thank you. I actually go a few times an hour if I'm drinking water and especially after coffee. That's part of what I always wanted to accomplish, every two hours working 8 hrs wouldn't seem so bad. But the longest I can wait is probably 30 minutes and even then I'm leaking a little bit sometimes. This is a big chunk of why I'm so insecure about it.

 

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@Maymay941 Thank you

 

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@Chris318 Thank you. Take care too.

 

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Does it count as bedwetting if you wake up from your nightmare while going, so really your undies are just wet or just a little patch on your pajamas & undies? Just wondering because that is why I woke up almost an hour ago.

 

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I went back and forth, with and without some kind of pad. Finally I dove in and started wearing pads 24/7. Then at night I didn't like how pads moved so I went Threaded Armor training pants at night or a pullup when traveling. My latest battle is between pull-ups and pads. The Depend men's underwear is probably my best solution but I have a hard time giving in fully to that.

 

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Hi it’s not easy at first to face that you need to wear protective products like pull-ups or diapers I remember feeling embarrassed at time but I gets easier as time goes on. For me it’s wearing diapers all day the only product that works but after do long it doesn’t bother me. Good luck

 

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@Jayindiapers Thank you. It's just pads, mine isn't to that extreme just leaks. But thank you