Hello Tanner,
Any idea what is causing your UI? I grew very tired of hearing Dr.s prescribing meds and alarms to solve my Ui. Not until 30 did I have a wise urologist do a study discovering my neurogenic bladder which is the medical cause of mine. Best of luck as, like you, those teenage years caused me to miss out on sleepovers or other activities (Boy Scouts) and were very stressful trying to keep it secret.