Thank you for all the support! I will pursue some PT to see if I can get some help with the incontinentce and beef up my pelvic floor muscle group. With be control I hope that my confidence will improve.
My nex appointment with my urologist is to be trained on giving myself a Trimix injection. Trimix is an injection that that you administer into your penile muscle to gain a formidable erection...another expensive way to guarantee a hard-on for suitable intercourse. Hopefully, without urine laced orgasm...lol.