@Jaytee - no worries buddy. Your post is a valid one and unfortunately a jerk ruined it.
Regarding your question - I use a bedpad from northshore and a coveden disposable on top of that. I've recently switched to totaldry overnight diapers and use a booster in addition. It may seem like overkill, but I have a paralyzed neurogenic bladder so I tend to have large voids both day and night and this combo works well for me.