I have been in your shoes, finding something comfortable and not obvious at work is essential. I almost always wear a Megamax diaper for most things but for work and travel I use a condom catheter. I had MANY issues with them popping off but found that there are "long seal" or extended seal options, essentially twice the adhesive zone, these work REALLY well. Like all day NO worries well. I wear a larger leg bag on my lower leg, I have messed with the disposable ones but the Urocare reusable are the best and have so many sizes. I like the large capacity long one because when full it is not as noticeable. I buy tubing and custom cut it to length. it does take a little trial and error, happy to help with more ideas but this is what works for me and is discrete. Downside, you have to use this as the way you go to the bathroom, no taking on and off but that is not to say you cant practice control, leak and then use the restroom at your convenience. Total game changer for me to be comfortable and literally not have to worry about it. I wear a lycra boxer and it holds everything close and the tube is not even noticeable - this is key to making sure you dont get kinks and a blow off. Good luck, happy to help!