Hi @ThatFLGuy, If you're not better by this morning, it may be time to go to the ER. That's your first priority today is to take care of the pain you're experiencing.
And if you do go to the ER, try for the smaller one where you went last time and find out if your mom can take you there.
Or if you can, call up the ER, explain what you're feeling like and ask them what the wait time is. If they give you a run-around just ask firmly but politely to talk to the charge nurse.
Once you get seen today and when you come home, call the doctor again and ask about the trial for the Axonics sacral neuromodulation and tell them that you are counting on getting this set up just as soon as possible.
Other than that, just keep on pushing until you get a satisfactory answer. And I hope things go really well and smoothly for you today, or even better than anticipated!