Be patience,I'm Teddy and I was discouraged hell of a lot the first day I got out of the hospital.I had my cath for 12 days,the first few weeks I was leaking hell of a lot,but days does get better.Keep doing your Kegel exercises.I was really down,I'm a school bus driver and supervisor for the company in Rawdon and Joliette ( province of Quebec )and I didn't think that I wouldn't be able to go back to my duties but my specialist that operated on me told me to take it easy,I was supposed to get back to work on the 3rd.of Decemberbut give yourself time,so I'm going back on the 11th. January ( because of the COVID 19 )
some days are okay and others not so bad,but my specialist told me that it will get back to normal,have patience.Take care,do your exercise daily.