Following on from my previous post regarding meeting up with friends for a few drinks well I now do this more often. Sometimes on my own! Why I never thought of wearing a thicker diaper before is beyond me!
When I first became incontinent I didn't have the confidence to wear thicker nappies in case they showed under my clothes. Now I do and honestly after a while just stopped worrying if anyone notices.
I now carry extras and wear for protection depending on situation and availability of restroom facilities... Took a few wet rides home too come to the realization that modesty wasn't working anymore.