@TiredofBeingWet Don't give up your search for a Condom Catheter /External Catheter, I call them (EC's), that works for you. Message or email me and I am more than willing to go into detail. I also tried the Liberty's and liked them. But went on to find a standard EC that works better for me. I can start another post so as not to pirate this posting. It can take awhile to find an EC that works, but once you have figured it out, trust me you get your life and confidence back.
1) MOST IMPORTANT is to find a Dr. that will patiently work with you.
2)Next thing to do is start a daily log. What you put on, size, type, material of EC, manufacturer, and any other info you think might be pertinent like type/style of leg bag. Rate those products. It did not take me long to see patterns emerge. I found silicone felt and works better for me. Latex gave me sores.
3)Download and use the sizing gauge that the manufactures post online. That will give you a place to start so you can ask for EC's in that size range. There is no point receiving a 35 or 41mm when you are a 23-25mm.
4)Do not be afraid to ask for free samples from the many manufactures. Include leg and night bags. There are so many to choose from, don't settle until you are comfortable. There are even pleated leg bags that eliminate the sloshing noises.
5)There are showers and growers and some of us are turtles... the EC's for one will not work for the other. Ask for longer or shorter samples. The adhesive is placed forward on some and to the rear on others. It gets confusing... so the log really helps.
6)Just because you are trying EC's doesn't mean you have to put your diapers aside. I wore diapers and pads until I was confident that I had it figured out.
7)One of my biggest problems was the soap I was using. Change to a soap like Ivory that doesn't have all the oils and lotions in it. The oils and lotions will interfere with the adhesive, causing premature failure.
8)Change your EC ever 24hrs to look for any skin problems.
Do not get discouraged. It may take time. But in the long run it is well worth the time spent so you are dry and odor free.
At 69 I still work most days as a landscaper. I also snow plow sidewalks in the winter. Both jobs put me in view of the public. The EC's have given me back the ability to work and recreate. I again enjoy driving on vacations without worry. It was more than well worth the time I spent finding what works for me. My health is better because I am better hydrated. My sleep is better because I no longer get wet at night. The other thing I have found is that my bladder issues have improved with the use of EC's.
From a short, 23-25mm, Grower & Extreme Turtle. R