With bowel issues, there is nothing that is a great solution. What you need to focus on is what will allow you to escape a situation around people without much attention. When I’m out of the house now I wear a plastic backed brief, waterproof pants over that, and I take nullo daily. With all that if something happens it won’t be immediately obvious. For me, because I have IBS-D the biggest issue is changing because of the mess, which is why I go home if at all possible. Doing all this has drastically reduced embarrassing accidents that used to happen all the time.