I'm not sure if i remember right, but i was on "Sertralene" (Spelling?) for a very short period. Was that the same? The Doc & the NP both refused to call my reaction "allergic", insisted on "adverse reaction". It has a bad reputation. Whatever, I can't take it. Oddly, "anti-depression" is a side affect of something i got prescribed almost immediately after that - by a different Doc for a different reason. Lamotrigine is for PN (Peripheral Neuropathy), but the "side affect" of anti-depression worked for me. Mild, but it helped. Not addictive, far as i know. The mental health NP was happy.
I agree with MayMay - you HAVE to discuss it with your Doc.
For anxiety, when things got desperate (at night), there was Lorazepam. Took me over 2 years to use 30 pills of low dosage - was warned it was badly addictive and i was afraid of it. It sure worked, but I Didn't renew it.
None of the three ever seemed to do anything for incontinence one way or the other. The Lamotrigene was working, and i just would work at something physical all night, sleep when i couldn't keep eyes open. Has to be some benefit to being retired.
Pot is now legal, here, but no one is growing medical pot - they can't even keep up with demand for recreational. From my hippy days, waaay back, i think that would work for me. I have a low tolerence for alcohol & pot - so it doesn't take much, and i refuse to drive under the influence. Anyway, alcohol is a depressant.
I sure like the non-prescription drug alternatives. I'm not sure they know much more about depression than about incontinence. Maybe see a holistic practictioner?