Im 56, 6'-0", 190, fit, atractive,straight, white. I know, wierd profile name. Maybe this help you understand.
When in H.S I met a girl and it wasn't long on finding out why we were the only 2 sitting out swimming class and we became friends. I was on track team, she played on the tennis team. She used to hide the diapers while playing tennis with pantyhose and rhumba tennis briefs (rows of lace on back). It didnt matter because everyone else were wearing the same ruffled panties and nobody noticed my friend was wearing diapers. You dont see the fashion anymore, wish that ruffles would make a comeback.
Anyway she graduated college and moved away. I have dated girls that did not wear them and because I wear them it just doesn't seem as comfortable a relationship as me being with someone similar. Maybe the girl for me is a Square Dance Girl with Depend's
. I dont know how to square dance at this point but am willing to learn.
I figure its better to be honest now than to be disrespectful and surprise you with it later....and who knows maybe we will meet and live happily ever after!
For anyone who has the Jerry Springer mindset. You should know that lots of people wear them in a polite respectful society. It appears that they sell them at all the stores. Tell my previous girlfriends, one who wore them do to birth defect and the other girl wore them due to pregnancy issue from previous relationship. Mine came after motorcycle accident, I healed 100% but wear them "just in case" Concerning the ruffles, Years ago the fashion was ruffles, ruffles under tennis and square dance skirts, under sundresses or with just a sweatshirt. I just wish the style would come back! I loved it! Im sorry you all took everything wtong but you are in the 99%..hence the embarrassment. Like I say its better if 2 people are similar in a relationship..If you would like to communicate in E mail I'm at
mfnfc1002@gmail.com.