Why I'm here

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I'm fecal and urinary incontinent. I hate to admit it but I became this way due to self harm. That is a whole separate issue that I'm dealing with on another site and with therapy. My main concern here is dealing with the difficulties relating to my incontinence. I have questions and concerns and would like to know if my specific difficulties are normal or if I need to make further lifestyle adjustments etc. I plan on posting my questions in time but I also very much want to know if there are any others similar to me. I am open to discussing why this happened to me so it ok to ask. I'm hoping to find support and friendship.

 

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How and why? Are you taking any supplements to negate the smell?

 

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Do you mean how and why it happened? It's a long story. I can tell it little by little. As for smell, that's one of my questions. I haven't taken anything. The worst of my condition most often happens on my way to work on the train. I don't move around much and I don't think I am causing a disturbance. Occasionally I think some people do notice. But I avoid people get to work and clean up and change quickly. Can odor really be avoided? I remember my kids when they were babies. When they went you knew it. Or am I just fooling myself and really bothering everyone?

 

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The odor in all honesty depends on the stools and even what you are but with adults the smell is less noticeable, i honestly think if you clean uo after yourself as well i wouldn't see a problem it's like people who have the runs, you can't judge someone for that

 

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i just needed to delete what i wrote and i don’t know how to do that so there is not comment at all. sorry. does anyone know if there is a way to just delete a whole comment rather than editing?