Hey @ThatFLGuy, you may have some type of non-cancerous growth or lesion on your lower spine. When all my bowel & bladder incontinence started it was from a massive impact on my sacral & lumbar spine. Essentially I was folded up in my seat like a taco when that gravel truck rolled over me. The Docs at the time were so busy fixing other broken parts, until I started leaking all over the bed did they realize they missed something while repairing my broken pelvis and cracked hip.
When I went in for my neck last time, even after numerous X-Rays, CT scans & MRI’s they didn’t see the tumor (either did I when the surgeons & I looked at the mess my C-Spine was in on the light boards) Only when he got in there did they find what was causing all the damage. The idiot team I was working with previously, literally sent me to a shrink to convince me all of my pain was in my head, AFTER they Red Flagged me as a chronic opiate user in need of intervention! Thank God they fired all of my previous team.
My point is don’t give up! We are all here for you, but you need to keep pushing these people%! Great job fighting for yourself! If I could suggest you sit down with whomever is in charge PCP, Urologist? And draw out a plan of attack going forward. This will help keep them on track, and start scheduling whatever experts you might need well in advance. Took 3 years for my neck, I was new in town, but once I contacted the CEO it only took a couple of weeks to figure things out.