I wore a pull up to the Urologists appointment, which was right after my catheter removal. It was soaked by the time I got done there after about an hour. I found that I could get a lot more usage out of the pull ups if I wore the maxipad with them, so I am still doing that one month out. Doing your kegels will help you to gain more and more control as time goes on. I am actually getting a signal now that I should stop and go to the bathroom, but I will stop anyway in about hour and a half intervals and try to urinate even without a signal. I generally will get some flow regardless, which keeps me from becoming sopping wet, and that will allow for for a pad change, not a complete pad and pullup change. That will happen to you in the first few weeks, but it will get better! Try taking some of Larry Kings Prosta Genix. It has been a big help to me! Keep your bowel movements as regular as you can. And use a laxative to lessen the straining. I found that morphene and other pain killers really tied things up for me for awhile in that area. Good luck and keep us posted. This is a group of tough people who want to help each other get past it.