I wear diapers but am a Foley catheter user as well. I live a significant portion of my life with a urine bag of some sort (leg bag or night bag) it only presents a mild challenge to my otherwise active life. If you think it would help, here's no reason not to give it a chance. If you do decide to go the catheter route, be sure to research, and read up on best practices. The catheter provides opportunities for infection and other complications if not managed properly. If anybody has catheter questions, let me know. I've been a catheter user for 3 1/2 years and had 2 UTI's in my time. It seems as though my methods are time tested.