Hi! I am 46 and have moderate mixed incontinence. I am a very thin woman, 5’4” and 98lbs. I have tried samples of a lot of products and nothing seems to be small enough. I was using light pads for a while and that was ok but then I had to move to moderate pads and they moved all around and I didn’t feel secure. Even the smallest size ladies hnderpants aren’t snug on me so I think that was why the pads move. Junior or kids size stuff doesn’t fir in the hip. I tried some pullup type depends and those are more comfortable but even the S or S/M seem too large. I don’t need or want a heavy protection product. Thanks.