I want to also say, like Jwh51 said as well, they are great diapers. They are fairly thin when dry so as to be fairly discrete. However, they have amazing absorbency, just expect some swelling in them as you wet them. I have worn them quite a bit at night, and they keep my bed dry and hold up otherwise as well. Mine will be swollen out in the morning in my groin area (almost need to say ballooned out) but never any leaks. As for how they absorb, it doesn't spread out to the butt and other areas even after a heavy overnight or even daytime soaking, the swelling and absorbing stays pretty close to my manhood, where it originates of course. They are also comfortable to wear both day and night.