I use disposables when I travel, and washables and waterproof pants when I'm at home. External catheters do not work for me, because I am double incontinent. Washable diapers are expensive to purchase, and the learning curve in using them can be daunting. However, they work so well for me that I could not fulfill my family, economic and social obligations without them. Amortized over a span of years, washables can actually be cheaper than disposables, especially if you must wash and change several times each day and use high-end disposables.